During the third week of our Work It Out program, girls are asked to discuss the pressures that they face in their own lives. As a part of this conversation, they reflect on things that weigh on them from time to time. After brainstorming the pressures that exist, they begin a dialogue about the possible effects of these pressures, both intended and unintended. I always find it intriguing to hear how the girls understand pressure and enjoy having a chance to empathize with them. The truth is many girls are facing more pressure than we know. Girls carry the weight of excelling in school and extracurricular activities, negative pressure from peers, complicated friendships, and societal expectations. Many girls must also take on a more responsible role in their family structure. And in the homes of some of our girls, their independence is essential to family life and their support systems are almost non-existent. That is why Girls Inc. starts these conversations. We are able to support the girls and encourage them to find someone to talk to.

As a result of this pressure discussion it is normal for me to hear back from volunteers that their girls have requested to speak to school personnel regarding an issue they are facing. It is those times that I am reminded that my work is not in vain. Many of our volunteer facilitators can relate to this feeling. It is the feeling that you have done something for someone, who seems to believe no one can help them. It is one time that we can feel like superheroes.